Being nice is free. But people often mistake that trait as weakness and start abusing it. Some may not even know they're taking advantage of you and some purposely do it. But stand up for yourself. If you know it doesn't feel right OR you've had enough - SPEAK UP.
It doesn't mean that you're a mean person when you tell someone what you disagree with, it just means that you know exactly how you should be treated. YOU MATTER. Don't be afraid to use your voice. Take a step back and really look at the bigger picture. Violence isn't the way to solve things. If you lose your friendship or relationship over you standing up for yourself, tell yourself that it's okay. There are more brilliant people out there waiting for your company. Don't be a doormat because each of us are meant to be treated well as long as we also treat others well.
- CJM
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